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But the thing is- there are phrases like, "When one door closes another one opens," for a reason. Reading books like, "The Rules," or "He's Just Not that Into You," will only confuse you more- especially if you have guy friends that tell you both those books are full of it.
But here's what I've learned about dating the guy that's "Hot and Cold." The second someone goes from infatuation to hesitating with making plans- those butterflies you felt at the beginning are all of a sudden replaced with tension and then you're on edge and you feel like you can only relax when you're with him- and that's because you never know when that will be. The second you put your life on hold waiting around for one man, you end up giving him all the power.
A hot and cold player reverts to cold as the norm, with bursts of hot that don’t result in forward movement.
The cycles of hot and cold may make you feel like the powerless one.
The best way to handle a hot/cold tug of war is to proceed to honest questioning. If so, then you may have stumbled upon a highly sensitive and fearful individual. These are easy questions to ask when you know what you want and what you deserve. For those who are straightforward, there’s little interest in anyone who plays games.