My mom is dating
Since you work together, I’d start looking for a job elsewhere. Furthermore, what was he even doing being “belligerently drunk” when his wife was 9 months pregnant and could go into labor at any minute?
In the meantime, you have two children who need your attention.
Look to them for the sense of security and confidence you’re craving. And work with a therapist on figuring out your feelings toward your husband.
I’ve spent a few weeks without him, focusing on the kids but also getting needed alone time to cry, grieve, and process. I know I don’t need him–I am positive I can raise and support my children on my own–but I’m truly in love with this man.
I don’t want to stay with him because of the kids, I want to stay with him because of ME.
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